true love

our friends leng & melinda got married yesterday. they are such a lovely couple.

the nicest people you’ll meet.

excuse me for a minute…break for cake porn…

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carrot cake, people! seriously delicious!!

ok…sorry…eh, hem…i’m back.

what was i saying? oh yes, lovely couple. beautiful bride!

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they had beautiful favors of little candles at the tables.

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i wish i had taken photos of the food. it was an amazing seafood spread! delicious!

congrats leng and melinda! we had a wonderful time and were glad we could share

in celebrating your special day!

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with all this wedding talk, i think i’ll share some of the things we did to document our own wedding.

seven years ago!

stay tuned!

patriotic cookies

nothing says 4th of july like cookies…does it not?

i made my favorite sugar cookies (thank you martha!) – in star shapes of course – and decorated them in festive colors of royal icing.

this is the simplest fool-proof recipe and i’ve used it for years.

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my icing was a bit thick, but worked out ok.

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unfortunately, i ran out of red food coloring (note to self, put on grocery list!) so my red was not as red as i would have liked it. still pretty though!

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i’ll wait here while you go get your glass of milk to go with these cookies!

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stay safe and enjoy your 4th of july!

1 year

i love looking back at old photos of the kids. i thought i’d look at some from a year ago.

so much changes in a year.

they grow so fast.

here’s anya in 2008 and in 2009 – still smiling

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here’s stella in 2008 and 2009 – still a petite little thing

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stella is almost 2. i can’t get over it. where did my baby go?

new look

newlook

i’m trying out a new look here at urbanbundle.

ok, maybe not with facial hair (because that would just be wrong!)

just looking at new designs and logo.

so, if you see things are a bit out of sorts, it’s just me fiddling again!

lucky

amidst the cranky-pants attitude i have today because of this nasty cold, i’ve decided to take a moment to appreciate how lucky i really am.

this man loves me. for all my mood swings and cranky times when i’m not so nice. he loves me.

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she volunteers to help me do the dishes.

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and she tells me at the top of her lungs that she loves me.

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i am loved. that’s all that matters.

i love you john, anya, and stella!

just some photos i love

busy days means not a lot of time spent blogging.

but, i wanted to share some photos from a recent trip we took to the san ramon kite and wind festival.
though i didn’t take any photos of kites (or wind for that matter)

i did get these pictures of anya on the airplane ride.
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she wasn’t having any fun. not at all.
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i love this one of john throwing stella in the air.

or catching her out of the air.

depends on how you look at it.
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stella really loved the purple balloon.

really, really, loved it.
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it was a fun family day.

anya’s first day of preschool

she’s proud. very proud.

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miss becky said “she’s an absolute delight to have in class.”

that made me happy.

when i picked anya up on her first day, she said “i had fun mommy, but i missed you!”

that made me happy too.

new camera for me!

i couldn’t be happier with my early 40th birthday (eek.) present from the hubby.

a shiny new canon eos rebel xt.

ooo, ahhh. love it.

it got broken in on mother’s day.

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i love it when little sisters hold hands.

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anya is a bit more cooperative than her baby sister when it comes to pictures.

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but that’s ok.

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i cherish these times.

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thank you for my camera, honey. i love it and love you!

“dangerous cake” put to the test

i received an email from my sister-in-law maureen this morning. the subject line read: THE MOST DANGEROUS CAKE RECIPE IN THE WORLD!!! (and yes, it was in all caps and there were 3 exclamation points at the end.) so, of course i had to open it up and see what all the hullabaloo was about.

i was immediately skeptical. any cake recipe that requires a microwave can’t be good – unless of course you are trying to make the next edible super bouncy ball (note to self: begin drafting patent for that idea.) anyway, it just didn’t sound good at all, so i left the e-mail in my inbox and went about my day.

later, i saw this post on facebook from my friend amanda. it’s an entire thread dedicated to people talking about, trying, and documenting this so-called “most dangerous cake recipe in the world”. the results were less than appetizing. at this point i decided that i had to do my own experiment.

so, here we are. i was impressed that i actually had all ingredients on hand (i was not about to run to the store for this.)

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you first combine all the dry ingredients – then add the egg (i’ll be the first to admit my fear of how full the coffee mug was becoming and the thought of this exploding all over the inside of the microwave.) and stir, and stir, and stir. add the remaining wet ingredients and stir (be forewarned: if you aren’t careful, you may end up with this chocolate goo all over your counter – stir with caution!) – my fear increased as the mixture reached to about an inch below the rim. the recipe assured me to not worry.

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in the microwave it goes. for 3 minutes on high. if you look closely, you can see it creeping above the top of the mug. it’s alive, ALIVE!

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here is the finished result. i gotta say – doesn’t look too shabby. now to get it out of there…i thought after i put this in the microwave that i should’ve sprayed the inside of the mug with cooking spray. that would have been a good idea. cake fail!

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once i dug the rest out of the mug, i let it cool a minute. my 4 year old was standing by ready to taste. the texture was definitely cake-like, however, it had that “hey-i-just-made-a-cake-in-the-microwave” consistency.

the taste test. anya: “mmm. tastes chocolaty. can i have that half?”

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i took a little nibble. the flavor wasn’t half bad, but the texture was weird. it was still warm, which was nice. i let it cool for about 5 minutes. this is when all went wrong. it now is hard as a rock. well, a soft rock (i’ll need to work on it to get that super bounce i need for my next invention.) but still – it lost any bit of airy-ness it had.

so, the verdict – if you can eat something right out of the microwave that is as hot as molten lava, go for it. if you require things to cool a bit so you don’t lose all feeling in your tongue for a week, i don’t recommend this recipe.

hair today…gone tomorrow

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well, he did it! john raised $1564 for the st. baldrick’s foundation for pediatric cancer research.

i was so glad he raised as much as he did during these hard economic times. our goal was not met, but he was in third place for the most money raised by an individual at this event at the uc davis cancer center.

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we wanted to do something fun with john’s hair this year. why not, right – i mean it’s going away anyway. so we decided for every $10 people donated, they got a “ticket” entered into a drawing to decide what color to dye his hair.

the winning color…pink. bubble-head pink, to be exact.

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because his hair is so dark, thick, and did i mention dark? we had to bleach it first. i couldn’t have been happier about playing hairdresser. it didn’t matter if i messed up!

home bleaching kit in hand, i went to work. surprisingly, his hair began to lighten immediately after application.

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i was pretty shocked. unfortunately, without the help of a salon dryer, we never got his hair fully blonde. in fact, it was a lovely day-glow yellow. pretty.

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next came the application of the bubble-head pink. i just love that name. there was no way for me to apply this stuff without getting it all over his scalp. oh well…new nickname, “pinky.”

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so, needless to say, it was a great event again. lots of people turned out again all with the same mission and what a great feeling to know we played a small part in helping these kids.

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